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Love & Lamba: How to find true love in Nigeria ( instagram edition)

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Some say love and Nigeria shouldn’t be in the same sentence, the country is already hard enough, why add heartbreak to the list?

In Nigeria, love and heartbreak are like “Taiye and Kehinde,” so inseparable. It is quite miraculous to find a love that wouldn’t end in premium tears. d tin come b like swear!

Love is Sex for a Nigerian man and Money for the other gender, so when the two have had enough, “we move” they say.

Anyway, this article will be refuting all these claims and would be showing you how easy it is to find love.

In this bustling, and bubbling country called Nigeria, you can find anything you want here. Ranging from love, knacks (akwamiko’, kpalashing), entanglement, babymama and papa situationship, LGBTQship. Name it!! Anything, “we get am.”

Your dream man might be on social media especially Instagram, you just need to apply pressure. Any kind man, e dey for there! “Na mumu dey waka for road find man. This one na soft work.”

I didn’t say you should go to Instagram and be shouting “I’m looking for a man” o!. There are a lot of things that go on in the background I will love to share with you guy. “I dey for you!” *winks*.

If you want to meet a man/woman online at your own convenience they’re certain pages you have to follow on Instagram.

The page determines the kind of partner you’ll get and be sure to watch out for their comments, which also tells the kind of people they are and how they reason on a different subject matter.


Rules for finding a partner on Instagram

  •  Remove your profile from private:

I get that some people are extremely private and would want to shield their accounts from people who snoop around.

I understand you and that is valid but, if you are looking for love or anything of that sort your account has to be readily accessible, not everyone has the patience of waiting for you to accept their followers’ request.

By the time you accept they might have even forgotten they sent you a request. For the period in which you’re searching for love, open your account, then when you may have found the one you can go back to being private

  •  Let your bio and profile be attractive.

You cannot have an empty profile and expect people to be attracted to you. You’re not a ghost my dear!.

Some even go as far as putting “proud snub” on their profile. I’m not judging, they might even have a relationship outside social media, but if you don’t and you do it, dem don dey ring bell for Shiloh.

Please upload something nice!

Note:  whatever type of picture you upload determines the kind of DMs you’ll get.

When people start sending you dms, Madam reply to your DM o! 400 un-replied messages is not an achievement! Thanks.

If you’ve passed these two steps, congratulations you’re almost there!! Now I’ll show you where to find your partner. They’ll be different categories, so scroll through to find your preferred choice.


Where Can I find Reasonable Men/Women on Instagram?

Go to @instablog9ja, @Gossipmillnaija, @TundeEdnut, or @Joroolumofin

Engage with their post. Endeavor to make “reasonable” and “intelligent” comments.

Surely those kinds of comments garner likes and comments. When people view their posts and go on to the comment section and see your “intelligent” comment, they would be forced to check your profile out, and that’s where Rule 1 and 2 comes into play.

When they check your profile and they like what they see, they would “dm” you, and the journey to knowing each other begins.

Disclaimer: what you make out of the friendship depends solely on you, be sure to filter your messages and give attention to people with whom you feel like you have a connection.

  •  If you’re in search of rich Zaddies and Sugarbabies:

I also got you covered, in these pages, you’ll find men that introduce themselves with alert.

The men on here don’t like to talk too much, they don’t comment, they don’t like, they just do their thing secretly.

These are the elite males and women.

You’ll find these people on @Mrpresidennt, @tufab,

But, for you to attract these men and be a partaker of this benevolence you need to fit the status quo.

Your profile needs to look flashy and attractive you know like all those peng pictures taken in Transcorp Hilton, Dubai, or a very luxurious yacht. You need to show that you own your shit to an extent before you attract these people.

READ ALSO- Love & Lamba: 5 Common misconceptions in relationships

To the male species, if you’re looking for a peng girl you already know where to go.

The trick is to make comments and entirely be noticed, this will bring an audience to your profile, and whoever fancies you will send you a private message.

  •  Where to find Religious Males and Females on Instagram:

You will need to take a trip to @9jachristianmingles, @kinglseypst

Engage with their post. If you’re a woman, your dream man will find you.If you’re a man look for your dream lady.

Remember to comment reasonably on their post, endeavor to garner likes so your comment becomes the top comment, that makes it easier for people to view your profile.


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I wish you Goodluck on your partner hunt, beware that not everybody you meet will be genuine and want the same as you. But if you’re an ardent reader of this section of the blog, you should already be able to decipher the time-wasters from the good ones.

Just be yourself and do you!

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December 9, 2020 7:32 pm

Gid help our love life here Sha… Ain’t looking for a sugar daddy tho just wanna visit the above page🏃🏃🏃🏃

December 9, 2020 7:56 pm

We move.

Instagram here I come

Reply to  Nathaniel
December 9, 2020 8:48 pm

oko ashewo

December 9, 2020 8:06 pm

Wahala be like bicycle make I go find my own man them don give me hit 😄

December 9, 2020 8:33 pm

Never knew Instagram is this interesting, thanks for the info sis 🤗

Reply to  pajereh
December 9, 2020 9:52 pm


December 9, 2020 8:50 pm

Hmm!! omo x10000

Time to represent King Solomon

December 9, 2020 9:37 pm

The other gender??? Hellooooo what happened to woman or female😒

Magdalene Abiebamon
Magdalene Abiebamon
December 9, 2020 10:47 pm

I love this article… great discovery and showing it to us like this makes you an owner of a golden heart… thanks

December 10, 2020 6:13 am

Chai I don suffer nothing wey my singleness no go see for precious hand this early morning

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