As a guy, you must be really crazy if you feel “Money” is all what women want.
Hell yeah, its money and more, sometimes its nothing but attention and a dose of “I Love You. Wake from that slumber and up your game nigga!
Well, I am a lady and its so funny seeing what guys go through in a bid to actually understand what women want.
I have been in several relationships ranging from entanglements, friendship, to the point of finding a nice partner, from a toxic to a severely traumatic experience, and the point where fairy tales became real.
The fact is that some men are not willing to make attempt to understand what “the female gender is all about”, they often hide under the pretentious act of women are difficult.
This is actually not an antagonism or a biased point of view but shedding light to create a perfect understanding of what women want, based on my personal experiences and mindset.
No matter the race, color, tribe or ethnicity, women are a priceless work of art, arguably the most profound work of the Creator.
Time was taken, even “Adam was put to sleep and his rib was taken” and this action would testament the fact all guys were just rough works to the actual work. Ouch! that hurts.
But as beautiful as they may seem some of this creatures were brought forth to torment the male gender and please this is not up for argument!.
Ranging from almost impossible requests, to attitudinal problems, frequent mood swings, it’ll take someone who really wants to understand them to actually do.
At first it may seem impossible to know what they want due to their annoying facade which in my opinion they do intentionally, but generally they just want to be treated right.
Their love languages may differ but one thing they all have in common is the need to be loved genuinely and endlessly. Some of them maybe hard nuts to crack but trust me once you know what they want, it would be easier.
In this series we’d be extensively explaining what “we” think women want.
1. WOMEN ENJOY SPENDING QUALITY TIME WITH THEIR PARTNER
A woman who’s in love with you would want to be with you always, and when she’s with you, she wants your undivided attention. For example; you have to keep every distraction asides like your phone, games and all that.
She wants to have deep, sensual conversations with you, she wants to go on dates and visit new and interesting places with you. If you notice she fancies things like this then you need to create enough time for her in your schedule.
2. WOMEN WANT TO BE REASSURED THAT THEY ARE LOVED
When women do this they’re labelled as “needy” but in reality that’s just their love language.
They just want to be constantly told of how precious they are and how much you want them in your life. If your woman likes this, drop random sweet messages to her, don’t assume she knows you love her. Avoid saying hurtful words, compliment her all the time and appreciate her all the time.
3. THEY LOVE RECEIVING GIFTS
A woman once said, “No matter how much i have spending my mans money is more sweeter”, this is true for most of them. They may be rich and can afford whatever you want to gift them, but because it’s from you they’d cherish it. It’s safe to say “it’s the intention for them”.
Send them gifts randomly, gifts that tell a story, it may not be expensive but its the thoughtfulness behind it. Try not to forget their birthdays, show up with flowers when they’re feeling down.
4. WOMEN LIKE ACTION
They like a man who acts instead of talking, they enjoy random acts of service.
These kind of women do not like inconsistent men. If you say you’d do something its best to follow through with it.
Try assisting them with little things when they’re stressed. When they specially ask for your help avoid failing them.
You see, Understanding women is not so hard, when you do this and other 256 things that they like you would definitely score a point with them.